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The Silent Hum Project: A Journey Through Fatherhood, Childhood Cancer, and Grief
Join Gus Greenslade on a raw and honest journey through fatherhood, childhood cancer, and grief. The Silent Hum Project is a space for stories of resilience, love, and finding strength in vulnerability. A must-read for anyone navigating loss in New Zealand.
Augustus Greenslade
Sep 18, 20253 min read


Coping with Loss in New Zealand: Grief Support Resources for Families
Grief is a quiet companion that arrives uninvited. It settles deep within, reshaping the landscape of our hearts. When illness, loss, or the challenges of neurodiversity touch a family, the journey can feel overwhelming. Yet, in the midst of this storm, there are places of refuge—resources and communities ready to walk alongside us. In Aotearoa, these supports are woven with care, respect, and cultural understanding. I want to share with you some of the ways families can find
Augustus Greenslade
Jan 194 min read


Meaningful Reflections on the Journey of Grief - Grief Coping Reflections
Grief is a path we never choose but often must walk. It is a quiet companion that arrives uninvited, reshaping our world in ways we cannot predict. I have found that grief is not a single moment but a journey - a winding road with unexpected turns, pauses, and sometimes, gentle sunlight breaking through the clouds. In this space, I want to share some meaningful reflections on grief, hoping they might offer a steady hand to those navigating their own path. Understanding Grief
Augustus Greenslade
Jan 195 min read


The Power of Resilience: Online Resilience Support Tools
Life can feel like a winding river, sometimes calm and gentle, other times rushing and wild. When illness, grief, or neurodiversity touch our families, that river can swell unexpectedly. I have found that resilience is not about avoiding the storm but learning how to navigate it with grace. In this digital age, online resilience support tools have become lifelines, offering guidance, comfort, and connection when we need it most. Understanding Resilience in Challenging Times R
Augustus Greenslade
Jan 194 min read


Grief: A Journey of Healing and Hope
Understanding Grief Healing Insights Grief is more than sadness. It is a complex process that touches every part of our being. When someone we love is ill or passes away, the world shifts beneath our feet. The silence left behind can feel overwhelming. Healing begins when we allow ourselves to feel, to remember, and to slowly rebuild. Here are some practical ways to support healing: Acknowledge your feelings : There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Feelings may come in wav
Augustus Greenslade
Dec 22, 20254 min read


Inside the Silent Hum Initiative: A Journey Through Quiet Strength
When life shifts beneath your feet, when illness, grief, or neurodiversity touch your family, the world can feel like a vast, echoing chamber. I have walked that path, felt the tremors of uncertainty and the weight of silence. It is in these moments that the Silent Hum Initiative offers a gentle, steady presence—a quiet strength that hums beneath the noise of hardship. Understanding the Silent Hum Initiative The Silent Hum Initiative is more than a project; it is a lifeline
Augustus Greenslade
Dec 22, 20253 min read


Understanding the Power of Personal Story Reflections
One of the most isolating feelings during times of grief is the sense that no one truly understands. But when we share our personal story reflections, we create a space for connection.
Augustus Greenslade
Dec 10, 20254 min read


School photos, hospital stories
For many families living with childhood illness, school photos of siblings feel like more than just a yearly ritual. They become proof that childhood is still happening in the middle of everything else.
Augustus Greenslade
Dec 7, 20253 min read


Comprehensive Local Grief Support in New Zealand
Grief is a quiet companion that arrives uninvited. It settles in the corners of our lives, sometimes loud and raw, other times soft and lingering. When illness, loss, or the challenges of neurodiversity touch a family, the path forward can feel overwhelming. I have walked this path and learned that no one should walk it alone. In Aotearoa, there is a growing network of support designed to hold families gently through these times. This post explores the landscape of local grie
Augustus Greenslade
Dec 3, 20253 min read


Embracing Identity and Self-Discovery for Whānau Facing Childhood Illness and Los
Embracing identity and self-discovery is not a luxury topic at Silent Hum; it is core survival work for parents, siblings, and wider whānau living with childhood illness and loss in Aotearoa.
Augustus Greenslade
Dec 1, 20254 min read


Crafting Compelling Personal Experience Narratives
Writing about deeply personal moments can feel like walking a tightrope. The balance between honesty and vulnerability, clarity and emotion, is delicate. Yet, when done well, these stories become bridges - connecting hearts, offering solace, and lighting the way through dark times. I want to share what I’ve learned about crafting personal stories tips that help transform raw experience into compelling narratives. These insights come from a place of quiet reflection and a desi
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 28, 20254 min read


Grief literacy, in real life: where this series has taken us
Explore how grief literacy helps whānau in Aotearoa name loss, support siblings, and navigate childhood illness together in this final Silent Hum series post.
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 27, 20254 min read


Why are we "The Silent Hum Foundation"
The Silent Hum steadies families in Aotearoa through illness, grief, and neurodiversity with practical support, honest resources, and whānau-centred care
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 26, 20252 min read


Supporting Siblings When a Child Is Unwell: A Guide for NZ Whānau
Introduction When one child is unwell, the whole house changes tempo. Daily plans bend around appointments, routines shift, and love gets pulled in new directions. In the middle of that pull sit brothers and sisters who carry a quiet load. Supporting Siblings When a Child Is Unwell: A Guide for NZ Whānau exists because their needs matter just as much as the care plans and clinic calls. We know the sibling bond is often the longest bond in life. A health crisis shakes that bon
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 24, 202515 min read


Navigating Hospital Days: A Journey Through Childhood Cancer
A quiet reflection on the emotional weight of taking a child who cannot speak through chemotherapy and radiation. When understanding meets silence, every hospital corridor becomes a conversation without words—about courage, loss, and love beyond language.
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 19, 20255 min read


Listening & Being Present: Practices for Daily Use (Part 3 of 6) - Grief Literacy Series
Adults grieve differently within the same household. One may talk often; another may withdraw. Listening to each other’s patterns prevents misunderstanding. A simple check-in — “Would you like to talk or have quiet time tonight?” — maintains closeness even when coping styles diverge.'
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 12, 20252 min read


Finding Strength: A Grieving Father's Journey
The silence after loss is deafening. When a child is taken too soon, the world shifts beneath your feet. I have walked this path, a father grappling with grief that feels both endless and isolating. Yet, in the depths of sorrow, I found moments of strength. This is my story - a journey through father grief coping methods that helped me navigate the storm. Understanding Father Grief Coping Methods Grief is not a one-size-fits-all experience. For fathers, it often carries uniqu
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 10, 20254 min read


How Personal Experience Narratives Foster Growth
Life’s most profound lessons often come wrapped in stories. Stories that we tell ourselves and others. When facing the unimaginable challenge of childhood cancer and grief, these stories become lifelines. They help us navigate the stormy seas of emotion and uncertainty. I have found that sharing and listening to personal stories can be a gentle beacon, guiding us toward healing and growth. The Power of Personal Storytelling Benefits in Healing When I first encountered the har
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 3, 20254 min read


Finding Joy Amidst Childhood Cancer: Our Journey
When you're walking through childhood cancer, life becomes a mix of hospital rooms, brave smiles, and prayers whispered late at night. But sometimes — there’s sunshine, waves, laughter, and a small hand holding yours tightly at the beach. These small, simple moments? They’re everything. Especially for siblings like Skyelar — our glass children, quietly navigating the storm.
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 2, 20253 min read


Old Scars, New Flares: Returning to Starship and Facing PTSD-Triggered IBS
Walking back into the pediatric oncology ward where I once fought for my life, I didn’t expect my body to remember—so loudly. While supporting my child through chemo at Starship Children’s Hospital, the ghosts of past trauma resurfaced as gut-wrenching IBS flares. Here’s how PTSD triggered my IBS, why the gut remembers, and what’s helping me get through it.
Augustus Greenslade
Nov 2, 20256 min read
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